Get it?: Strange? High I.Q.? *that is HILARIOUS* (1st part from me. 2nd from their Mom. 3rd from me.)

if you would (and without a mention to monica), please call your boy genius at some point today & ask him to remove the 3 piles of tire smashed dog excrement from the driveway *before* he leaves the state.

thanks in advance.

-g

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nick, greg and his dad are very much alike - don't see the obvious. don't let it irritate you too much (not worth it)

besides...ones must make allowances for families. it's strange how someone with such a high iq can be so flippin clueless

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(monica laughs when no one gets my sarcasm)

it's been insinuated that greg is "the smart one" all their lives.

(this made me laugh out loud ...literally)

monica has more brains & common sense in her pinky than the boy idiot will *ever* have.

it's no wonder she drinks the way she has/does.

(the previous line was not sarcasm *fyi* )

having to grow-up with a borderline retard, subjected to his idiot narcissist tendencies and with you making excuses for him the whole way.

i explained something to monica.

it's a fairly simple business plan some companies employ.

you *inflate* the value of something.

talk about it enough, and people will buy it without question.

it's clear that you've been doing this your whole life with greg.

talking him up & up, making excuses for him and praying the whole way that no one would notice what a cheap, self-serving, self-absorbed, contribute nothing to society moron he really is.

and blaming it on his father, or lack thereof?

please?

i'm not fooled.

neither is monica.

in fact, we are affected/effected.

BIGTIME.

so, you'll have to pardon us if we "let" it "irritate" us.

as his mother, this is what your new standard of "allowances" should read like:

You: "Hey, honey?"

Him: "Yes?"

You: "DON'T LEAVE YOUR HOUSE FOR 18 HOURS AT A TIME, LEAVING AN EMPTY WATER BOWL & NO FOOD FOR YOUR ANIMALS!" "THATS ABUSE!" "IN 8 WINTERS YOU'VE SHOVELED MY DRIVEWAY 1 TIME, AND I TELL GLENN & MONICA IT'S SOMETHING YOUR NOT GOOD AT, BUT YOU BOAST ABOUT WORKING OUT 4 HOURS A DAY AND HOW MUCH YOU CAN BENCH PRESS, BUT YOU DONT HAVE THE TIME TO WALK YOUR DOGS." "LILLY'S LEGS ARE MALFORMED FROM INACTIVITY" "YOUR SISTER HAS NEARLY DRANK HERSELF IN TO OBLIVION FROM HAVING TO DEAL WITH ME AND YOU, SO PLEASE, DONT ASK HER TO STOP AT THE LIQUOR STORE WHEN YOU TWO ARE ON THE WAY TO A SHARED EVENT. HAVE YOU NOTICED HER FOREHEAD? YOU IDIOT!" "PICK THE DOG SHIT UP OFF YOUR DRIVEWAY EVERYDAY, BECAUSE THE DOGS, MONICA, GLENN & WALKER COULD BE COME DEATHLY ILL FROM DISEASE OF FLIES LANDING ON THAT SHIT AND THEN LANDING ON PEOPLE, FOOD AND ANIMALS." "PICK THAT SHIT UP FROM THE YARD AND DRIVEWAY EVERYDAY FOR ONCE THE CITY IS GRANTED FULL ACCESS TO THE PROPERTY, THE FINES WIL BE SO HIGH THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO BORROW MONEY FROM ME & I'LL HAVE TO REMIND YOU OF THIS WHENEVER POSSIBLE!"

*for starters*

(now, if you or greg can find it within yourselves not to go crying to monica about this...

...that would be *frankly* unbelievable)

as well, go back in to your books & re-RECOGNIZE CYCLES OF ABUSE.

academic & professional achievements are really nice, but they're not everything.

from what you've shared concerning your mother, you're doing "ok"...

...but you can do better. (less criticism & more support (and i'm not talking financial)

Why do *you* think Monica has NO self-esteem?

I know why.

Thats done, but could be repaired.

You owe her that & I'm here to help.

We need to find her an advocation.